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[quote=Mcleanie77][quote=TLC]Hi lovely ladies, I really need your help with PW. I'm going to make a better relationship with a co-worker. She has been bullying me and been plotting behind the scenes against me ever since she started working here -and she even tried to get me fired on 2 occasions. I have big trouble connecting to her in a loving way when doing PW. In fact, I can only feel hatred toward her because the things she has done to me. Any suggestions on how to turn my hate around?  [/quote]   Hi sweetie, if I can give you my two sense on this ok so if you're having these problems you would first need to see it in your minds eye the scenes you would like to see like for example if you feel like she's trying to get you fired you would flip it and pretend that she was the one with these problems and or there wasn't any problems and it's really great work environment for you! what I like to do is completely "Pretend" now this is a big part pretend that everything is how you want it at work like every detail from the way she acts with you to even getting a promotion at work it's called revision and when certain things that you wish weren't happening go back and make it so it's to your liking and the outcome makes you happy and then hold that feeling as long as you can I would do that as much as you can you don't have to go into a deep mediation for it just as it's happening pretend right then that's she's being super nice and maybe even coming and friendly chatting with you! I'll tell you a quick story about my husband and his at the time one of his horrible bosses. It was probably three months ago maybe more his lady boss started completely being such a bitch to him he would walk into a room and say hi to her and she wouldn't even reply she would also try and get him in trouble and also would take credit for his great work he did! So one day I decided I was going to PW her ass and tell her things like for ex... he was her favorite employee and she has never ever had a better employee and that she was very sorry for treating him that way and so on and so on! I shit you not that night he came home and as he was eating he was like hey guess what you know my boss who pretends I'm not alive well guess what she came to my desk tonight grabbed a chair and started shooting the shit with him he was shocked as hell so when he told me that night I just smiled knowing I had something to do with that! Now ever since then she tells him how much she appreciates him and that she wouldn't know what she would do without him!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂[/quote]