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[quote=Mcleanie77][quote=Jim Chien Beige]I want to post my success story cause I know how encouraging could be to read them. This journey started 4 months ago. I met my boyfriend in October 2015 (on a Saturday). He is from Spain and he moved to Mexico. I met him 13 days after he arrived and I knew since the beginning that he was the one. We are both aries, our initials are JM, we like the same things, etc. I have to tell you that he is very handsome (to Mexican standards LOL) and I´m good looking too. Before I met him, my confidence and self-esteem were at the top, I used to go to the gym 6 days a weeks and my body looked fabulous. Basically I was feeling very good and he fell in love with me instantly.  He was constantly calling me and wanting to see me but I had a wedding in another state so he had to wait more than a week to see me again. We saw each other again and since that day, we became inseparable. He slept at my place at least 4 days a week, he introduced me to his friends, we spent Christmas together and everything was great. BUT… Spanish people are tough, you know, their accent, it´s like they are angry all the time. I knew that cause I lived in Spain for almost 2 years, and I knew that they are not very emotional, I mean, they can´t show their emotions and feelings. He told me that he loved me, but nothing else, so I started to imagine things, like he was seeing somebody else, even though I knew his whereabouts all the time. My mind went CRAZY and my self-esteem and self-confidence disappeared and I began to feel anxious and unhappy all the time to the point that I stopped sleeping. And you know how thoughts create reality, so I created the breakup. I became a jealous person and I was constantly checking his Facebook. So one day, he went to work, I went to the gym. I checked Facebook and I saw that he added a very slutty looking girl, and I went crazy. I have to confess that I came home and I opened a bottle of wine… And then I texted him accusing him of being unfaithful, etc, etc. He snapped cause it wasn’t the first time and sent me a text saying that he didn’t want to be with me or anyone else. At that time he was living with me, so he told me: I´m going to pick up my stuff next Sunday. That Sunday I begged and cried. He was pissed and told me that we could be friends. The next week he contacted me. Actually, he contacted me all the time about stuff that we had to solve (I knew his messages were excuses) but my world collapsed. I desperately began to find a way to have him back. In the beginning I read everything about getting your ex back and I thought those tactics were silly and immature, and then I remembered the LOA. I read everything you could imagine, forums, blogs, I listened to audios, etc. And I decided that I was going to do everything to have him back. My first manifestation was a call from my mother in law who lives in Spain. That gave me confidence. Also I started to meditate 3 times daily to soothe myself and doing Lanie´s techniques. I kept my mind occupied. While I was home, I listened to LOA videos, audiobooks, etc. I stopped watching TV and also I read many books about LOA. I found Neville Goddard. Whenever I felt desperate, I closed my eyes and I thought about the image of my end result and with that image I went to sleep everyday. I saw him 4 times in that time, but nothing good happened, on the contrary. When I blocked him completely, I met Cherie and McLeanie and we began talking everyday via whatsapp. Those girls saved my life!!! And I started to feel good almost all of the time. I decided to take action, so I sent him a letter apologizing and I also called my mother in law to tell her that I was still in love with him. The letter arrived and he texted me wanting to talk, and the rest is history. In one week my manifestation unfolded and now he´s living with me, we are starting a business together, and planning the future. We have to solve some things, but now I know that I have the Universe holding my hand, and many wonderful people in this forum. Hope this story is useful. Winners don´t quit and if the man is good for you, fight for them. But never ever lose your dignity for a man.  [img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/love.png[/img][/quote]   Bump! This is one of my favorites❣[/quote]