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[quote=Indigo][quote=wanderlusting]He is currently in therapy to work on some issues that he has. He did invite me to his therapy session a few days ago so I could give the therapist my side of the story, but I ended up backing out because we haven't even seen each other in over a week now. I know that he isn't where he wants to be in life right now and I know that a few months ago he was struggling with depression but he seems happier now and actually enjoying his life. He did me text me Sunday that he misses having fun with me but since Sunday, he hasn't reached out to me to hang out or spend time together. I am not going out of my way to contact him nor to try to see him. I am giving him space and time to try and remove the negative emotions and associations he has currently with me. I wasn't the easiest person to be in a relationship with and I struggled a lot with constant worrying, jealousy, insecurities, and because of those things, it created me being controlling and possessive, which of course, creates more problems and conflicts. I am too in therapy myself to work on those issues as well as self love. It is hard undoing many years of conditioning. I do have to say though, I wish I had gone to his therapy session because I think his therapist hearing what my guy refuses to tell him, will only help in getting the help that he needs. I am still meditating on him but more so on him treating me better and him wanting to talk to me and see me. I feel there are some things we need to sit down and discuss before we make a permanent decision to go opposite directions and give up completely. I know he has mentioned a couple of times here and there that with how I still am, he doesn't want to risk getting back into a relationship with me and getting the same shitty relationship we had before.   [/quote] Him inviting you to attend his therapy session is major.  And because he is having issues he really needs your support right now.  If I were you I would contact him and let him know that you will definitely go to a couple of sessions with him, but you really have to go.  Don't back out.  [/quote]