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[quote=Indigo][quote=Issykitten]We made plans before we broke up. Well It wasn't really a plan I just asked if I could go see him and he said yes. but its been 3 months since we broke up and he hasn't messaged me so I'm just going to say f it and if it happens it happens. He hasn't made any efforts to contact me and I've done challenges,PW,RS,Scripting and nothing has happened [img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/confused.png[/img][/quote] I understand that you really want to spend your birthday with him, but if you made plans and then broke up, then those plans got cancelled.  I would advise you to focus your attention on something else besides worrying about him spending that day with you.  Make some plans with your other friends or else spend the day alone pampering yourself.  Get yourself a nice birthday cake, some fresh flowers, and maybe some champagne and celebrate your birthday, alone or with friends.  Do some regrouping, planning, reflecting, journaling or whatever.  Don't be embarrassed about getting things for own yourself, there's nothing wrong with doing that.  But whatever you do, do not ruin your birthday, or any other day, by moping around and being sad because of a man or anything else.   In the meanwhile, continue meditating on the situation if that's what you choose to do.  And please make sure you get all three of Lanie's books, read them all (and re-read them) and do the things she says. [/quote]