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[quote=Golden]First of all, I just want to congratulate you on all of your success! Wow..! Please keep using these as encouragement. It's pretty amazing. I think when we are aware of the person we [i][b]really[/b] [/i]want, we have to work even harder on detachment. And when that person finally does come back, that is extremely hard. We're excited, we're ready to love them again, ready for things to go back how they were or maybe we've been envisioning this new lifestyle with them... Whatever it is, we're just ready for things to start !  But don't forget all of the progress you've made just because something didn't go exactly as you planned...[i]yet[/i]. Don't let this impatience ruin everything you've done so far. You said it yourself: You know this works. And you definitely have proof![img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/smile.png[/img]  Confusion, attachment, needing answers? All low vibrations. We have to let these go. If you're anything like me, you might be feeling fearful  because he isn't responding the way you would like, or quickly enough.. I am probably the most impatient person ever, I get it lol. Don't feed those thoughts, continue doing what you've been doing. With that great conversation, you now know he isn't upset with you, things are [i]fine.[/i] Keep focused on the right things, and don't give this person so much power.  Also, don't forget to put yourself in his shoes, declarations of love as soon as you reconnect? Would you do that if you were him? He could be wondering if you still care, if you're even single.. Don't make assumptions so early[img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/wink.png[/img] Once he returns again, keep up those light, funny conversations. In the meantime keep counting those successes and maybe even have some of those light conversations with the other guys, you know, just to keep that fun in your life. [/quote]