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[quote=wanderlusting]I actually practiced the cutting the cord meditation last week and within a few hours I was hearing from him and then we ended up hanging out. He has taken back my invitation to go with him to his therapy session so no need to worry about that anymore. I do believe that I need to give him space again as I feel like he is controlling me and I am chasing him and that isn't a fun game to play.  [quote=emmiline]Hi wanderlusting, i am sorry that you are facing this confusing situation. Yes give him space for a bit and focus your meditations on healing for yourself. You are still wondering and writing about what his responses and lack of responses mean, this translates to him still wielding power / control over your thought process. I would not go to therapy with him, he is selfish. He doesnt share pics of you on social media, didnt invite you to his birthday but wants to hold your hand when he is talking to a shrink.. no. If you are going to meditate on him please do the cut the cord, its great for your mental well being. Let us know how you feel afterwards.[/quote]  [/quote]