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[quote=January]Thanks guys. Yes, I have been struggling with impatience and I absolutely recognize the source of it. A loved one very close to me doesn't have that much time left and I'd always planned to stay with him (we are long distance) for a long time while I healed. I fully admit that I'm scared to not have his support while I grieve. Not in a codependent kind of way but from a support position. This is something I'm working on. You can't tell from my post but I'm actually doing much better with this today. I think that the cutting the cord meditation really helped, so I will continue to work with that. I didn't realize I should be focusing on only a few phrases because in BWD, she gives a long list and in the MP3s, there seems to be more than a few. A lot of what I hear him say is in general conversation. I will try this since it seems simpler! I am really confident in my new script as it pertains specifically to him. I'll cut out the part about him calling. It wasn't just about getting him to call but also for him to know he can. This is something he struggles with so I thought him knowing I was receptive would help. I appreciate the feedback![/quote]