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[quote=Minami][quote=Indigo][quote=Manifestingmama]Hi . I'm new here and I'm trying to get advice . I see many people trying to manifest an ex , but the person I'm trying to manifest is just a friend , We could have been in a relationship but I messed that up so I'm doubtful he'd want that now . Especially since the month after we stopped talking he already had a girlfriend. Little does she know we've been talking off and on most of the time ( just as friends). He wanted more but I'm not going to do that . I just want him to be happy , and I can do well as just being his friend . We've been talking for almost 4 years now . Two weeks ago we were started talking again , but he decided to argue and say he doesn't want to be friends , yet prior he sent me pictures and said he thinks of me all the time . I pleaded and begged to no avail and he now just ignores my text and calls . What am I doing wrong and what can I do to fix this ? I'm new so any and all advice is appreciated.   [/quote]       Welcome.  Make sure you read all of Lanie's books.  If you aren't interested in a relationship with this guy I would just leave him alone.  Obviously there's something more that you want, hence the begging and pleading, which don't work on a man it just makes you look desperate and gives him the upper-hand. And I'm sure you feel awful that you did that.  Don't chase him anymore and do the meditations.        [/quote] Totally agree with indigo And welcome to this lovely place..I'm relatively new also but the ladies here are so kind and helpful 😍 Trust me..in the past I have tried pleading and begging (long time ago) it does not work unless it's on a guy who might just want to use you and leave..kwim right? I know that sometimes women have that tendency but you have to remember that you are complete within yourself ..you do not need something or someone else to validate you..there is nothing wrong with you! ♥️ Just read the books and do the pw/ BWD ..I tend to do BWD less as I want the emotional connection to be stronger than physical for now.. Hope you feel better soon[/quote]