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[quote=Indigo][quote=January]I was explaining Lanie's technique to a friend last night and some of the reasons around my breakup, which includes my guy's best friends trying to push him out of his comfort zone so he can find happiness, them making things happen despite his misgivings, etc. She asked why I can't do PW on them, such as "Stop pushing him and this relationship with her. Look deep and see how unhappy he is." I'd never thought of that before and I don't recall it being discussed anywhere in the books. Is this a bad idea?   [/quote]       You can do PW on the whole wide world if you want to (seriously).  Me personally, I would focus on my guy, not all his friends, his exes, but maybe his mama.  I also wouldn't be telling my GFs I was doing PW mainly because  GFs have a tendency to blab.  Last thing I need is my man thinking I'm trying to manipulate him.   But that's just me.        [/quote]