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[quote=Indigo][quote=smalmo]I have been practicing it on my ex for 3-4 days now. We broke up after 2 years as he thought I am too intense for him and he is very laidback. We had a great understanding and chemistry earlier. Yes I did overreact on a couple of occasions in Nov which had put him off me completely. He stays in a different country so the likelihood of meeting again soon is very less as here I am dealing with a long distance relationship. Our last meeting was in Nov which had a bad episode too as I said. But we still stayed in touch for sometime, he mentioned he can remain friends with me but not get married to me. As I wanted more in the relationship he called it quits. I love him immensely and want to do anything to get him for good. But he is a very calm, composed and strong person, not sure how well and how far this will work with him. Being in a bad relationship earlier has scared him too much to take another risk in his life. I have no idea how to deal with this. Please help. No I haven't read PP yet, but the first two PW and BWD.   [/quote]       If you just started doing PW 3-4 days ago, you need to work on your patience.  These meditations are not an instant gratification tool.  Honestly, I don't have much advice for you ladies in these long- distance cross-country relationships.  Everyone knows that long-distance relationships rarely work.   There is the occasional success story but for the most part they don't work because a man needs a woman taking care of him, not skyping him or talking to him over the phone.  I think that you all are setting yourselves up for failure by getting involved with someone that is not in your proximity.   Anyway, maybe someone else will post about how you should handle this relationship.  Meanwhile, I recommend that you read all of Lanie's For Women Only series, you can use them to learn about dealing with this situation as well as other men in the future.             [/quote]