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[quote=Indigo][quote=smalmo]Thanks all..yes agree long distance is difficult but not impossible..the reason we met was on a matrimony site to get married. The few times he has come down to meet me is because we had it going very strong..the plan was that we will get married and I will move with him to the country he stays in..i would need your help here to help me understand where I am going wrong with the manifestation, please don't make me loose hope already..   [/quote]    That is a completely different scenario from what you posted before and that is why I asked you for details before responding.  If you met on a matrimonial website with the intention of getting married, there must have been a time-line of how long the two of you would spend getting to know each other and then an engagement and a wedding date.  Was there a formal engagement? Obviously there is a reason why he decided that he didn't want to marry you.  Do you know what the reason is?  Did he tell you?   And if you decided that you didn't want to marry him after getting to know him, would you not expect him to honor your wishes. I don't really think that this is something to be meditated upon.        [/quote]