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[quote=Indigo][quote=Joca]Well I'm not crying every day, of course. I have a son, job, friends... But, yes he made the situation like this. I can't read Lanie's books because from my country we can't buy it. Our relationship is very intensive with lots of ups and downs. He is the most intelligent man I ever met, very kind, nice... But... He obviously has some issues. He is the first man that I really love. He is not perfect but nobody is and I want to try it again. Maybe it's a long time but time is relative, isn't it. So, I don't understand perfectly- you are promoting Lanie's books, telling me that is a lot of time passed and that I'm moping because of the man. You see, I'm here to share my situation and to have a back up not to be judged in any way. I'm not judging to anyone and everyone has some story.    [/quote]       No I'm not judging.  I'm responding to your post mainly because no one else has bothered to do so and it's been a couple of hours.  Time is relative, and it really passes quickly when you are watching your children grow.  My children are adults and so I know all about time and how it passes.  Anyway, it's too bad that you don't have access to Lanie's books.  They are great reads and filled with useful advice for all of us.          [/quote]