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[quote=Indigo][quote=BellaLupa]I just found out that my recent ex is already going on dates because he made a point of mentioning it on FB yesterday, KNOWING that I might see it. A mere MONTH after we split. Classy. I feel pretty gutted right now. I know it's not the end of the world, but I was feeling so positive and motivated that he would have moved back toward me by now. Anything you can do to help me get back in the right headspace would be appreciated right now. It's been a rough couple of days.   [/quote]       Stop stalking him online.  You're not supposed to be doing that! Read Lanie's books and do the things she says.  You continue to do all the things that men don't like - chasing him, stalking him, and being desperate.  You have no control because you lack self-discipline and you don't listen.  If you want him back you need to change what you are doing.        [/quote]