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[quote=Indigo][quote=BellaLupa]Wow. Ok, Indigo, I get that you're trying to be helpful, but I am NOT stalking him nor am I chasing him. I have been in no contact and as I said, I unfollowed him on FB and looked the one time. I have pretty much been doing everything I ought to do. I am in a pretty bad place right now and in a lot of pain and the last thing I need is to be treated with a total lack of empathy. None of us are perfect, we all struggle. It's a process and the harsh judgment is neither helpful nor supportive. If that is how you prefer to offer your advice, I would rather that you simply did not do so. Thanks.   [/quote]      Please STOP playing the victim.  You have posted about this same problem here, at Veronica's and who knows where all else countless times.  You keep doing the same things and expecting a different result.  Do the meditations, re-read the books and stop doing the things that you are doing.  If you don't want my advice, don't read it.  You're welcome.        [/quote]