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[quote=Aphrodite11]NC is done for many reasons. People do to make the person miss you, think of you and it gives a cooling period to both the people. BUT, the primary reason for NC is self growth. You need a grip over your emotions, over yourself, you need a clarity, you need to give the person the necessary space and you yourself need that space. Many times not being in NC can hinder your growth. It can annoy the person. You are likely to just end up overanalysing the person's behaviour after the break up and hurt yourself. The person might think you are just there available and hence might keep you on the back burner, string you along, throw the breadcrumbs and all this will fuck your mind. I am not saying they will do all this on purpose. It's a break up, it affects them as well.  And there are many other reasons. [/quote]