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[quote=Aphrodite11][quote=HH]Thank you so much everyone.  Thank you for being so uplifting in this difficult time for me. Blue thank you for the links. I guess what's difficult for me to understand is he is thinking of me and he does miss me - but while missing me and thinking of me, he made the decision to move forward with someone else.  He can think about me all he wants [b]but that doesn't mean he doesn't think about this girl as much and that she is right for him[/b].  Im not sure.  I guess with LOA they say time doesn't matter - so it can be a year, five more years, however long it takes. Also, it's working so if I stop doing the technique, does the bucket stay full or does it get cleared out?  Last night was the first night in more than 6 months that I didn't do the technique.   I am in the shock feeling more than anything at this point.  But I will keep my head up.  I appreciate you all.  [/quote]  No !!!!! Just no !!!!! You think he thinks about her !!!!!!!! Bullshit !!!!! With all the work you have been doing there is no way he can think of anyone else except you !!!!!  If he was thinking so much about her and cared for her then I don't think he would have gone ahead and proposed. When humans have someone else in their mind all the time, feel things for someone else all the time while they are with someone else, we call it emotional cheating. I am not saying your man is a bad person. No. Not at all. What I saying is that if he proposed to her while having feelings only for you then he doesn't really care and think about her. If he was thinking of her or her well being, then he would have backed off. I could be wrong. But still, this is what I think. Don't you give up HH !!!![/quote]