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[quote=Indigo][quote=Anti-Social]Thanks for replying. I guess im overly paranoid about coming across as desperate or throwing myself at him. I thought if I go NC it might help. I do own PP however ive only read it once. I'll make sure to read it again today!   [/quote]       The reason for NC after a break-up is that it leaves him to wonder whether you are keeping company with other men, living it up in Vegas, or thinking about him at all.  You never want the man to think (new or ex) that you are sitting around waiting for his call, daydreaming about having his babies, hoping for a booty call, none of that.  Do not constantly call, text, hang around, or otherwise make yourself available as all of that gives him the upper-hand and he will just take you for granted.  And men don't like buggy clingy women anyway. For a new guy, just be cool, be yourself.  Try to look nice, it gives you an air of confidence.   Keep your nails, hair and wardrobe together as men notice those small details.  When he looks at you it's fine to make eye contact along with a nice smile to let him know you might be interested.  Always have a couple of topics in mind to make small talk in case you two conversate.  Most importantly do not give him VJJ or any kind of J until the two of you have established an emotional bond.  All of that in conjunction with PW, and you can have any man you want.        [/quote]