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[quote=Oasiscalm][quote=Indigo][quote=Oasiscalm][quote=Indigo]       Yes, but women can take care of themselves.  Women do NOT need a man.  Women can earn income, take care of the household, raise their children alone, fix the car, cook, clean, do laundry, and take care of a ALL aspects of their lives.  Men cannot.  Most of them are sad and helpless creatures.  That's why men hook up with another woman as soon as they break-up/divorce and women take a break between relationships.  And please don't reply about how men can do all the things that a woman can.  They CANNOT.  We all have mothers and fathers, and which one of them does everything???  Exactly.  MOM!!!  And that is the main reason why long-distance DOES NOT work.    [/quote] It always makes me sad to read things like this pseudo men bashing. To see you write "...men are sad and helpless creatures." Breaks my heart. Why would you waste time trying to attract some of these helpless creatures. Where is the love in that. Women can take care of themselves, yes and so can every single creature in the animal kingdom. A relationship is about a union. It's not about loss of self. A man or woman should be with someone because they want to share the experience of love & life together. You make some very generalised blanket statements to differentiate men and women. There are plenty of women who jump straight into relationships one after another, with no breaks. It may also be good reading to look up how men and women process break ups differently. As for long distance not working. I've had a successful long distance and I have five good friends who are now married to men who they were in long distance relationships with. A LDR is hard but like any other relationship it will work of the two people (man & woman) are committed to making it work. I look forward to the day when we stop having the man v woman argument. I'm a little confused, I thought the whole point to applying LOA to your life was to empower yourself to change and create your reality. How does one do that with rigid beliefs that x is x and will never ever change.   [/quote] Let me summarize that for you - If you meet a man through a matrimonial website and he bales, is that something that should be meditated upon?       [/quote] Could that not be extended to every single situation on this board. When the basic feature of each situation is that the person is trying to attract someone who at the current moment is showing no interest I have no doubt in your sincerity in helping the OP I'm just wondering why the power of PW is only applicable in some situations but not worth using in others I.e LDR ([/quote]