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[quote=Lanie Stevens][quote=NorthernGirl]I've been in love with my man for nearly 4 years. We're as close friends as anyone can possibly be but he has always resisted a relationship with me. He tells me I'm not his type, that he doesn't want to ruin the best friendship he's ever had in his life. He has always also dreamed of being a father (he's childless at 42), and I'm 47......so there's that. Anyway, have been practising the technique from Book 1 for about 10 days. No results as yet but then I do realise I have a lot of resistance which may be slowing the process.  I'd love to hear some stories about how the target felt all of the feelings we wanted them too before coming forward.   [/quote] I hope other women will chime in with their stories to help you.  I don't know what you have been visualizing in the 10 days since reading my book but whatever it is it will intensify his feelings for you.  Sounds like he is rationalizing (wanting kids) while his heart may be telling him something different.  Keep using my technique until it becomes natural and a habit for you.  Focus not only on him but on a life with a man (without putting his face on him) who loves, adores and wants the same things you do in life.  Best of luck!  Please let us know how it goes.   Big Hugs, Lanie[/quote]