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[quote=Indigo][quote=Evey2222]I am really sorry if this has already been posted - but when I searched I couldn't find anything to help me. So I need some advice from you lovely wise ladies. I am so confused. Before I met A, I really wanted C back. But then I decided to give up and say either him or someone better, as you do, and then A came along. It was only 2 months but we had a really deep connection and we fell in love. He wasnt ready to commit, so the story ends... I have been trying to attract A back, but sometimes in the back of my head I feel I want C back still. I am trying to clarify who treated me better, made a pros and cons list. But I am stuck, completely stuck. I do not know who I want to attract back! I know the technique works because it has been working. I have been focusing on A but C keeps creeping up in my mind. But I really fell for A.  If someone could please give me a bitch slap to help me sort my head out then that would be lovely! I thought I was just holding onto C because he is in the army, I feel bad, but I can see a life with him. I can see a life with A too. I feel like just handing it all to the universe and saying please sort it out I have muddled it all up!!!     [/quote]       Why you all write HELP in capital letters I don't know. No one here can help you with your dilemma, you must figure it out.  Flip a coin.  Make a list.  What is most important to you.  Unless both of them is cool with you having two BFs, you need to get unstuck and make a decision.        [/quote]