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[quote=Lanie Stevens][color=#000080]I would do both!  Send him a message using the technique and send him one to let him know why you are upset with him and be specific!  For instance, tell him that it upsets you when you don't hear from him for weeks at a time.  Give him the opportunity to change his behavior and if he doesn't make pleasing you a priority I would not respond to his messages.  In the meantime open yourself up to dating someone who is not in another country!  Long distance relationships are difficult if they are a few hundred miles apart but another country makes it really, really hard.  Use the technique to attract other men![/color][/quote]