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[quote=Sunshhine14][quote=lovelychica25]In my opinion, the best way for you to handle this situation is to take a step back from him. If he just got out of a relationship, he should take a stop & chill, instead of jumping into another relationship, especially before talking about marriage. How long ago did he break up with his ex? As for you, take the time to love yourself and make sure that you are attracting exactly what you want, instead of settling for a guy that is crazy possessive & easily flies off the handles. If the signs of abuse are already showing, why do you want a relationship with him? I know marriage seems to be your goal, but is that the kind of marriage you want? Keep him at a distance and do PW that way...That's my advice[/quote] The ex he broke up with several weeks ago.  He said she wanted marriage and he didn't feel strongly enough for her for that kind of commitment. Yeah...it's not a question of me settling for someone. I'm not in a situation where I need to do that.  But I found myself getting feelings for him before he demonstrated this behaviour, and when it happened I was kind of taken aback. I know it's just internet, but it happens.... Yes I agree with you. I need to step back and basically I have. I definitely wouldn't contact him. I would even have dropped him totally, but he keeps on liking things I post on social media and so that made me think that he still is interested in me. Even just now I found he did that last night also. And when he thanked me so formally for liking his post (calling me "miss" Lol), I felt it was just an excuse to talk. But he doesn't contact properly, which I find frustrating.   [/quote]