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[quote=Indigo][quote=Sunshhine14]Thankyou for your replies, everyone.  I'm just going to let this go. I'm hurting a lot over this and I don't want to carry on this way. I'm also feeling angry at him now. I don't know yet whether I'll bother doing any more PW on him, but right now I'm not in the right frame of mind for it.  What I don't understand is, if we have split up, why is he still liking all my FB posts, sending me that invitation to like the wedding clothes, etc?  And why did he contact me to say thank you for liking his post but never taking it any further when I was friendly? I mean, only half an hour ago I posted some photos of my town, and when I came back online just now I found he had liked the lot of them. But still he is silent. I really don't get it. I just don't know what's on his mind.  Guess I'm over-thinking, but right now I can't help it.     [/quote]       It is perfectly okay to meet someone online, that is not the issue.  I met a man online years ago and we became real life friends.  We met in person pretty quickly after making contact, sending emails, exchanging snail mail, talking on the telephone, and making plans to meet.   All of that occurred within a couple months.  We traveled to see each other and everything was great but in the end it did not turn into a meaningful relationship but we are still friends today.  One year is plenty enough time to actually meet that person in real life if he is truly serious about having a relationship with you. If you ended the relationship and he continues to follow you, it is either because he has got  issues or he has nothing better to do.  The most important thing is that you have realized  that this is not a healthy relationship and that there is no future here. ALL that matters is YOU!    We all want to support you get through this and if we seem critical it is only because of that.        [/quote]