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[quote=Sunshhine14][quote=Claire_Bear][quote=Sunshhine14][quote=Claire_Bear]You have never met the guy, you really do not know him. You can't marry someone you have only met on line and the interaction has been liking posts?  I can't believe what I am reading! Please take care. He sounds very strange. [/quote]  No, the interaction has not been just liking posts. Maybe I haven't made myself clear. As I explained earlier we talked a lot and were getting to know each other over the past year. More recently it got romantic. It's not so un[b]usual. Many people have had internet romances and met their partners that way. [/b]I don't see it as such a big deal.   [/quote] Of course, and I am not criticising that, but surely you usually only talk about marriage after having met in person a good number of times?  It's not having a go, it is just that I can't understand being romantic with someone you've not met personally. [/quote]   Yeah I know you're trying to help me and I really do appreciate it.  He wanted to meet a long time ago - long before he mentioned the subject of love. He was always mentioning it but I put him off because of some stuff going on in my life right now.  The nearest we got to "meeting" was videochat. But that was ok with me. That was enough for me to feel sufficient closeness to him in th short-term. I have to say that there is no way I would have just married him without meeting him first. We needed to spend time together.   [/quote]