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[quote=Indigo][quote=nenalatina]I know if I post what I'm feeling I'm pretty sure I'll be advised to let go and do the technique when I've forgiven and have happy feelings. Unfortunately it hurts like a son of a bitch! He posted an instagram story and he was with someone in bed. I cried all night. We're not together but we're not apart either. We've been intimate and we've stayed in contact. He travels a lot for work and we were going to see each other in march which is when he'll be around here. I try to use the technique on him and at first I felt immediate connection. But now I'm either too emotional or he's just not interested. I commented on his story saying it was good that he wasn't alone and I said good night sweet dreams. He immediately responded saying hi how are you? He totally disregarded the fact that I'd seen that. I don't know what to think. I'm either in love or extremely infatuated, but the fact still remains that it hurts like hell. I want him to want me and only me. Please help! I need comfort and some advice :'( [color=#090987]I'm desperate!! I don't know how to reach him   [/color][/quote]       I'm not going to advise you to do the technique because you are not in the correct frame of mind for that right now.  It doesn't work with desperation, anxiety, helplessness, etc.   He posted a pix of him in bed with another woman and you are going to be with him in March???   Here's my advice - Read ALL of Lanie's For Women Only books, and if you decide you still want to pursue him, then you can start doing the PW meditations.  In the meanwhile, there are some other meditations that Lanie has to empower yourself.   They are available on her website.        [/quote]