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[quote=Indigo][quote=SouthernFell]Thank you all for the advice, I've been in a really good place with myself up until today. I was in a really good head  space. Not initiating contact, feeling like I am in control and very confident. When he would reach out to me I would respond when I got around to it and was pleasant but not overly so. Major setback in my mental today though, he asked me on sunday if I missed him and I ignored the question completely. We didn't have contact at all on monday or tuesday, my assumption is that he was irritated with my lack of response. Then today he asked "Do you miss me friend" and for some reason the fact that he added the word friend on the end of that statement really ruffled my feathers. I feel like all of the confidence, control, calmness etc has gone right out of the window. [img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/depressed.png[/img]    [/quote]       We all have temporary setbacks, that's all it is.  You're on a diet and you stopped at Dairy Queen and ate a split.  No biggie. Just get back into your groove, that's all.  Why does he ask you if you miss him, I wonder? Probably just trying to gauge your feelings.  I would respond with something short along the lines of "what do you care" and drive on.  Read Lanie's books, they will really help you deal with your situation.         [/quote]