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[quote=Avaelle][quote=unicornsnrainbows][quote=Avaelle]We've shared a quiet evening together.  He was very sweet, affectionate and attentive to everything that I talked about. He spoke on working on a project with me. In my visualizations, we have a son so I was all smiles when he shared with me that he would really like to have kids for sure. The only thing that threw me off was he told me that he was alarmed that I wasn't courting anyone and he asked me if that was anything that I wanted. I told him that I wasn't dating anyone or on sites looking but wanted a boyfriend(hint hint).  He told me that he has been recently thinking about courting but he doesn't want to go through that uncomfortable stage of having to introduce himself. His talk about dating just seemed general.  I want him to date me so that left me confused.  I"m hoping that maybe it went over my head.  Other than that, the evening was amazing.[/quote] Is this an ex or just a man you've been wanting for a long time?  If it's the latter, then maybe he was (hint-hint)ing at you, since he already knows you.  If he is an ex, maybe he was just trying to get a reaction from you to gauge whether you'd be open to dating again.[/quote] He's not exactly an ex. He is someone I had been wanting and we started things up but it suddenly stopped and he went away.[/quote]