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[quote=duvetwitch][quote=Lanie Stevens][quote=duvetwitch][quote=unicornsnrainbows] Ha--I figured you were real...but I guess you never know.  :)  So happy that things are going well so far.  I'm curious--what did you do in your PW sessions?  Were there any things you had him say to you, that he's now said and/or done in physical reality?[/quote] So to answer this. It's not so much the specifics of what he said, but the general tone of it all. During PW he said: I miss you (said) I love you (said) Marry me. (will be said soon) There were other things in the mix at different times. For example, early on I wanted him to feel a lot better in himself, so he said things like: 'I'm feeling much better, I've moved on a lot in myself'. (he has not really said this - but it is VERY clear in his actions, how he is and what he has been doing for himself in our time apart). Then I read some stuff from some of the girls on this forum and decided him feeling better should not be my focus, so I mainly stopped that. I did also have him say he had withdrawn from a friendship with a female friend who I had not met and I was NEVER comfortable with their relationship (although it was never sexual). So I had him say: 'I cannot even see X' Over the weekend we spoke about X and he has not seen her for weeks and weeks, and they have not been in touch at all.  They used to be in touch pretty much every day by text/whatsapp or email.  He said he is totally fed up with her, she is flaky and he cannot be bothered with her anymore........ In PW he said 'I cannot think of anyone else but you'. He was not able to even date another woman, not a single date. In PW I told him I was going to date other men and he would lose me if he didn't pull his finger out. He told me over the weekend that he was terrified to contact me because he was convinced that I was seeing someone else. (I only went on a handful of first dates - they were all nice guys but not for me!!) He also said he had been looking for any excuse to contact me, but was fighting himself about it. But as I said it is more the overall tone. It was the feeling more than the words.  I think you have to really feel the PW. Sometimes he was saying things without me saying them.  [/quote] [color=#000080]I can tell by the tone of your message that not only have you raised your vibration to one of love and acceptance but it sounds like he has too.  It is so healthy that you have both decided to take things slowly and not just jump into the sexual part of the relationship.  You will find you will connect on a deeper level and when you consummate it again there will be no doubt about the level of love and commitment.  I can't wait for the wedding invitation!  :-)[/color][/quote]  Yes Lanie, exactly right (as usual). I had got to a place where I was genuinely happy to be alone and yet simultaneously utterly certain that we would get back together one day. it didn't matter when it was, and actually it happened much faster than I expected. I am in a much better place and so is he. I think, though, that I am in an even better place than him. This is partly because I had fewer issues to start with. However, I also cannot credit your work enough! It is not so much that it works to communicate with someone remotely (which it certainly does, of that there is no doubt). But just as important, probably more important, it works on YOU the sender. A combination of mainly PW and just one single CTC really worked wonders for me. CTC was a little sad after, but only in a bittersweet way. Ladies: once again. Just read the stuff and practice what it says. It's not difficult. It does not require 3 hours per day! (I had actualy started to miss the odd day here and there but generally filled in during the day with a short 'power session' in the car park or somewhere where I could grab five minutes). Lanie's materials are dirt cheap: I think my books were £3.99 each or something? That is not much more than a cup of coffee! Come on - just buy them all (I did), buy the meditations and get on with it. It's so simple. Just keep going. And the key, it seems, is you. Just stop stressing about it and go about your business and BE HAPPY! I promise I will find some of the links to other bits and pieces I found useful. I even listened to an online hypnosis with my boyfriend yesterday as he started to get into a negative spiral about how badly he had treated me! (I wish I could have let him listen to Lanie - but i've had to hide that in a secret folder on my laptop so he won't find it!!)[/quote]