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[quote=Lj][quote=Layla]I feel I manifested my worst fears.. After I broke up with my love in June, I've been paranoid he would date someone new. Lo and behold he meets someone in September through Tinder. I thought, it's not serious.. it's Tinder.. etc. I kept projecting my fears and manifested everything I was afraid of. In fact, it's crazy how all my fears became reality, accurately! I was doing what Lanie warned against, being paranoid that they are happy together! So I believe we do attract our thoughts.  With LOA, I understand I should focus on the end result of my love and I being in our perfect relationship, and to just ignore the other woman's existence. However I find it hard to erase her out of my mind. But I have stopped imagining them happy and just believe they are arguing and fighting all the time. In my PW sessions, I imagine him saying "I am breaking up with her! I find her annoying/controlling, I am disgusted when I see her, Only you make me happy, I only love you etc etc."  Is this OK? Or would even thinking about her in this way attract "more" of her ? Any advice appreciated. Thanks![/quote] I'm in the kind of situation. Back in August I began to feel insecure about how much my girlfriend loved me. And all thru September I was thinking "I bet she'll leave me soon" etc. And she did late September. After that I began to think "I bet she'll meet someone new" and "I just know she met someone new already". In November she had a new bf. Then I began to fear when they moved in together. A couple of weeks ago, I found out they were looking to buy a house. WTF??? So... be careful what you think about. But on the positive side of all this, I know that if I could manifest all those other things, I must also be able to manifest her back to me. It just takes a whole lot more of self discipline. But I'm working on it, even though I haven't heard from her I 4 months and been blocked on everything.[/quote]