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[quote=Indigo]      You have a lot going on there.  I don't have much advice for you but it reads as though you are unsure if you even want a relationship with this man.  That's something which I would get clarity about before doing PW on him.  You shouldn't question whether you are a fool, we all go through things in life, that's life.  We are not fools or idiots because we got hooked on a man.  But for myself, I don't believe that just because you "love" someone that he is the right person for you or that you should even be together at all.   I can't tell if you are doing NC for a specific reason as it is not about whether you are in contact or if you are looking at his FB.  It's used after a break-up or other situations so that you can gain control of the relationship.  Lanie covers it all in BU2MU.  If you haven't already done so, get all of Lanie's books and read and re-read them ASAP. I think that they can really help you deal with your current situation.          [/quote]