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[quote=Blissful]So I found out yesterday my guy is overseas and has been there for a couple of weeks. I deleted him off all social media and we haven't spoken in 7 weeks, then all of a sudden he popped up on a friends snapchat and this friend lives in America! (we live in Australia) I've spoken in posts before about him not being able to commit to me because he kept saying he was applying for jobs in America and he may have to leave at anytime so he can't be in a relationship. I decided I couldn't have a friends with benefits relationship anymore so I walked away but continued doing PW, BWD and the Love Spell for the past 7 weeks imagining the relationship I want to have with him. So now I am thinking he just all of a sudden made this snap decision to go travel overseas with his best friend who was going over there to see his brother and to do some back packing. I am trying to see this as a positive that maybe he has been pretty miserable without me in his life and the technique has been affecting him so much he just had to leave and find happiness in a holiday because to me it just seems odd to do that instead of just waiting to get the job he wanted.. I dunno if I'm just clutching at straws here and reading to much into it but my hope is that he is just going over for a holiday and not considering living there for a year or two like he originally planned. I tried to send him a message on Facebook messenger but he hasn't opened it for two days.. Don't really know what to think especially when I have no way of finding out why he is there/how long for.. I was doing well with NC and just doing my own thing before this, now its left me with so many questions.. :/[/quote]