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[quote=StrawberryKitten][quote=Non]Hello everyone! I just finished reading PW 2 weeks ago and I am having trouble with the process. Before bed, I take time to relax and to visualize my love and I and seeing him saying what I want to hear and let him go with love. But i find it so hard to feel good about the whole process. I think I feel like I am doing all this and it is not working. He broke up with me almost a year and a half ago and we are in different countries. I have been using LOA for 6 months and nothing has worked. WE are civil and no hostility , but just neutral, no interest. I feel like no feeling is worse than anger because he still cared.I dont know what I am doing wrong, why I am not getting anything... Im not depressed but I do have my highs and lows. Im trying to stay positive but I guess today is my low and because I havent felt the excitement of hearing him say what I imagined, I feel like Im not doing it correctly. Hope this makes sense. Why am I not happy to hear these things when i do PW? I used to be so happy visualizing me and him together.  Sorry for the long post, hope everyone is having a great day :)  [/quote] I could be wrong, but it sounds to me like you're doing it from a place of desperation. Don't feel bad, I've done it too ! But it won't be effective. What I would do is take a break from it in order to work on YOU and getting your vibration higher. This is much easier than people think, people tend to overthink that part...I know that I used to. Just fully focus on you and what makes you happy, aside from him ! Do those things, think about those things. Then, when you're in a better place to do PW and BWD, you won't feel so attached to what happens. You'll do it because it feels awesome and you know it will work. The fact that you still have contact with him and that things are civil is a huge positive![/quote]