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[quote=Ratpack]I think you have time to make a decision. Let's face it. You're pregnant. He's not going anywhere. You and he are bonded for life. One thing I see a lot of is "I manifested this" in these forums. Maybe, but he has free will. You may have "manifested" the cheating in the way that you knew he cheats and continued to go down this path, but he cheated because he chose to. You can't put that on yourself exclusively. The saying "I knew better, but I did it anyway" comes to mind when people say they manifested things like this. My thoughts are you should work on you. I don't mean to sound harsh, but there's something inside of you hurting if you think you can't do better than a man who knowingly breaks your heart. Not only did he sleep with someone, he lied and went far enough to cover his tracks. He didn't make a mistake once. He consciously slept with someone else and had a relationship with her so comfortably and openly that she shared pictures on social media. Who knows what kind of person she is? She may be a very lovely moral woman with standards and class. She also may be sleeping with anyone and everyone. Even if he used protection with her, he didn't with you. He put your life at risk. He put your self worth at risk. That's unacceptable. You may have had signs telling you to go for him because maybe you were supposed to Mother this particular child. That may be where it ends. Work on you. Do some EFT tapping. Meditate without thinking of him. If you must PW, talk to him about your worth and nothing else. Get your vibrations so high that nothing and no one can knock it down. Again, he's not going anywhere. No need to rush and make decisions immediately.[/quote]