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[quote=Jag123]Hi Blissful Don't be down, you have made tremendous progress.   Have you thought that perhaps what he actually means is "I'm looking forward to seeing you and I want us to enjoy each other without you nagging and getting emotional" .  I know that when I have reconnected with my boy, I have got over emotional and it hasn't been a happy reunion.  After the event I have always kicked myself that I wasn't  more in control of my emotions and came across as confident, in control and having him just wanting me back in his life.  There would have been a better, more natural time to have had the "answer my questions" kind of conversation. The techniques HAVE worked,  he wants to see you.  He's made plans with you.  He wants to enjoy you. I think that what he is asking is that it remains civil and calm.  This is amazing, use this opportunity to show him why he fell in love with you in the first place.  Don't forget how far you have come and take things slowly.  Rome wasn't build in a day. [/quote]