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[quote=BettyBlue][quote=Ratpack][quote=BettyBlue]Well to update, he sent me a pic of a couple kissing, titled "morning, beautiful", and has been initiating contact. We talked on internet for a couple of hours too. He messaged me to admire a painting I had made and this afternoon he has been teaching me words from his language (his parents are from another country), recording the pronunciation, and then we had a nice talk about cultural stuff. He said he wil teach me more of the language gradually, over time. He mentioned something we had fought about during our romance together - something he remembered I had said during a fight. But then he added - "but now since we are only friends that wouldn't happen ever again". I kept cool and said "Yeah".  Although I kept cool I was secretly a bit taken aback when he said that. [img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/confused.png[/img]  Why would he send me all this romantic stuff and then be insisting on the friendship only thing?[/quote] He could be feeling you out. Trying to keep his guard up to keep from getting hurt.[/quote] Yes it could definitely be that. And looking back I feel that when he reminded me about the "just friends" thing, he was also trying to get a reaction out of me.   [/quote]