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[quote=BettyBlue][quote=LOAqueen]He's an attention lover! My guy needs CONSTANT attention and reassurance. The best thing you can do is just let him know you do care about him, but don't feed into his neediness. Try positive reinforcement. Reward him for good behavior, and don't acknowledge his bad behavior (i.e. Being volatile and extra needy) But it is working! He's overwhelmed and confused and probably suffering from low self esteem! Send him healing positive thoughts. Envision him as being a strong confident man. No woman wants a man who is insecure and unstable![/quote] Yes the more he does this the more I feel he wants me to tell him how much he means to me. He seems to be after that, but then if I do say something he acts like he doesn't really believe it and he implies that my other friends (men, basically) matter more to me than he does. Kind of wanting me to get down on my knees to him and swear undying love.  Yes I'll imagine him as strong and confident. His insecurity is wearing me down a bit.[/quote]