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[quote=Lanie Stevens][quote=jellyb]I actually have a question about that, Lanie--in PW and other techniques we try to influence the guys to behave in a certain way, but you explain here that we may be trying to create something that doesn't fit with reality. Should we not be trying to work on them altering their behavior through PW then? I think I'm confused![/quote] Honestly I would say if you're not happy with someone's personality or basic characteristics then they are not the person for you. The technique is not about changing their personality. The technique works to get them to love you, desire you, put you first… But not to change their personality. If they are doing things to hurt you, that they have control over, it can certainly change that. So the behavior I'm talking about changing, in my books, is how they treat you. How to get them to make you a priority.[/quote]