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[quote=Indigo][quote=daisychain]Met up with my love but now confused!!! I'm off work on holiday and at the beginning of the week had been thinking of going for a short break to his Country as I love it but couldn't make my mind up.  The flight left the next day and I was talking to him that night and asked about a place I was thinking of going.  Long story short he asked if I wanted him to come see me so I said yeah.  He recommend a town which was closer to him so I ended up going there.  He works a lot sometimes until early hours plus has Uni but came to see me the night after I arrived and stayed over until the next afternoon then had to leave to go back to work.  He told me when I said where I was staying he'd phoned them to find out where it was.  When he arrived I got big hug and kisses and It was like we'd never been apart, we got on so well, chatted and had laughs.  He was showing me photos of his family, nephews, brother, sister, mum and dad and I saw pictures of her (the girl I found out he was with at the same time as me).  I said are you and her still.....he didn't reply just made a grunting kind of noise and had a meh type expression.  He said he'd try come back that night after work, he finished early hours of the morning so would have to rely on someone giving him a lift.  Next day he messaged saying sorry he couldn't get his friend to bring him.  So that was it I didn't see him again, I was only there for 3 and a bit days. I done PW on him while I was there but didn't see any response, I didn't see him again lol. I'm so confused again as he's gone back to being quiet on me [img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/cry.png[/img]  I still feel that there's more for me and him and I truly believe he feels something for me.  This guy is younger and has a lot going on in his life with Uni and work etc. Help....what do I do now?   [/quote]       I'm sorry this happened to you but if you want a real relationship with this man then you need to do more than just PW.  I've been there, done that and what you are doing isn't working especially if he's showing you pix of his other girl.  Please take the time to read Lanie's other books on how to deal with relationships and actually do what she says so that this doesn't happen to you again.          [/quote]