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[quote=Indigo][quote=daisychain]Thanks for replying Indigo. I'm doing loads more and have been for months from BW, Love spell.  My PW comment was only meant in that I wanted to see if there was a reaction while I was there. He didn't actually show me the pictures as such, he was flicking through his phone showing me his family etc and they were there. I have all Lanie's books and have read them all a few times, guess I need to re-read!   [/quote]       Well it hurts just the same whether he intended for you to see the pix or not.  I've got a  crazy story but it really happened to me.  Years ago, back in the 80s, it's been thirty years ago I was in a relationship with a guy that I knew was sort of a scoundrel but I just thought he was the cat's meow and so I didn't care, all I cared about was that he would see me when I wanted and it was all good.  I was working full-time at a really nice job but I also had a part-time job in the evenings because I had the time and energy and I liked to have extra money to do whatever.  So I had a part-time job at a photo development lab we got all the films from drugstores, K-marts, everywhere in the region.  The films would come in the evenings, we would develop them and ship them back out in the mornings.  I only worked for 4-5 hours in the evenings because I had my full-time job to attend and I had to be alert for that.  So anyway, one day at the photo lab I came across an envelope (one of my duties was sorting the films by type 35mm, 110, discs, disposable cameras, like that) and it had his other girl's name on it and so after the pix were developed I went and spied the pix under the guise of doing inspections and OMG the two of them had a BABY together!!!  I was so upset I can't tell you how shocked and upset I was.  I was so hurt it was awful because I had no idea that all of that was going on.  They weren't married and since they both worked for federal government it was frowned upon to have a baby out of wedlock especially since he was a supervisor (not our supervisor, just that he should be setting the example as a government employee).  To top all of that off, on my way home from work that evening I was so upset I was crying and driving and got into an accident because I didn't control my dumb emotions, it turned out to be the other driver's fault but if I hadn't been so upset it wouldn't have happened and although it  wasn't that serious it was scary.  This really happened to me and it is an episode that I would rather just forget but when I say I've been there done that I really have.          [/quote]