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[quote=Indigo][quote=daisychain]Yep it sure does hurt! I knew where your story was going when I started reading it, what a horrible way to find out! Apart from re-reading the books what other advice would you give me?  I really appreciate you taking the time to reply Indigo, thanks.   [/quote]       I forgot to mention that it was a brand new car!!!   I don't really have much advice other than to consider what you are doing now and how it's going to impact your future.  When we are young all we think about is what we want right now without considering if it is even in our best interest in the long run.  And that's about many things not just a man - it includes things like buying real estate on your own and investing for retirement.  The years go by very very fast. Anyway, I eventually left that one alone and when I think about all the misery I allowed him to put me through I just shake my head because it's not like I was some brainless bimbo but I sure acted like one.  I wish I had known some of the things that Lanie writes about relationships back then, I would have had a much better life when it comes to dealing with "my collection" of men. I just hope that everything works itself out for you :)        [/quote]