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[quote=Avaelle]I'd keep in mind that with the techniques,  I've been introducing feelings and thoughts to him.  I would allow him to come to terms with those feelings and thoughts.  I'd also allow things to fall into place naturally.  I really think it is a underrated mistake and sign of impatience when us gals are going on a date or two and start to ask them about entering into a relationship.  The techniques are strong as is and actually prompting them about how they feel, which direction things will go etc seems to make them step away. It's just too serious.  Let them come towards you and ask about a relationship. Since that door has opened already - you can be a good friend to him. Friends date, dating leads to relationships. There's nothing wrong with going through the phases. You could also step back away from him and work on yourself so that there is some patience there.[/quote]