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[quote=Avaelle][quote=Jen]Daisychain, I too wish I knew. There's a very small non manifesting side of me that wants to contact him and tell him "I feel stupid and used by you telling me how much you love me and get very intimate with me and then decide to go dead silent". And then there's the strong manifesting side of me that says be quiet and be strong as this is only temporary.[/quote] I personally wouldn't call and say that.  The next time he wanted to see me,  I'd decline.  Then,  when we did end up seeing each other - I wouldn't get intimate with him. Through my experience,  changing my actions has been a good way to change the actions of others.  [/quote]