Lanie Stevens "Empowering Women" - http://laniestevens.com
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[quote=BelieverOfLOA][quote=Lj]My personal reactions, are no reactions at all. Been silent between us for almost 5 months. But I'm keeping my vibrations high and knowing that this will not last. Any time now, she will come around and contact me. And if not, then there's someone better for me. NC is definitely a useful tool. But only to work on yourself. Don't use it because you want to play games, make him beg and feel bad.[/quote] I agree 100% I am not doing it to make him feel bad or beg for me. I am doing it because I need the space. He is a toxic male. I am pregnant with our child and although it happened 2 mons* after we broke up we had been trying for a year and had a miscarriage 1 month before we split. I learned that be cheated on me... lied to me... and then is now living with this other woman knowing I'm pregnant- so I envision him waking up to his actions, not because it's wrong, but because it will help his soul. I also am not envisioning him back with me, just apologetic and wanting to rectify his mistakes... I am keeping my distance for some time because I need it. Also, like you I am envisioning my wedding, but no face - it is to allow him to return and rise up or someone new and better suited to come* about. I feel when I am ready to talk to my ex, I will. He is too much... and it's a game. He knows the situation but literally tries to text me jokes to break the ice. Ice is there for a reason, what he has done is NOT a joke. He will grow as am I. :) Thanks for your share!! I agree highest good of all 💛 Edits *typos[/quote]
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