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[quote=jellyb]I'm just like everyone here who's been thinking and worrying that Lanie's techniques don't work. BUT THEY DO. I've been NC with my guy since he disappeared on me in January. I've forced myself not to chase him, I've just kept to myself and tried to focus on ME. It hasn't been easy, and it was kind of shocking when I realized I had been neglecting a lot of my own needs and wants beyond my guy. So I did a combination of PW and BWD and CTC, maybe 4-7 times a week. Sometimes I was really tired, sometimes I just didn't feel like doing it. And I did the love spell. I couldn't stick to the schedule Lanie recommends but I did it when I could. When I did all these techniques, I really did feel like he was there, like there was still a deep connection between us, and I tried to just stick with that feeling. I also visualized his name on an email in my inbox. And this morning there he was, an email in my inbox. I thought I was seeing things for a minute because I had been visualizing it so much. He apologized profusely, explained himself, and wants to try again. I haven't replied yet but I will, and I'm going to keep my cool about this as much as possible. I hope this provides a little boost to anyone who could use the encouragement. Keep at it! ETA: I also did Agnes Vivarelli's whispering technique, also about 4-7 times a week.  [/quote]