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[quote=LotsOfLove]I have just started reading Lanie's books and I find they make me feel so empowered and happy! I do wonder about my own situation though. It is a little complicated because my ex has a child with another woman. That is part of the reason we broke up - his ex wasn't really allowing him a lot of contact with his child... So now they are back together. For a long time I was really down and didn't believe there was any chance of us reuniting. I got kind of desperate about a year ago and talked to him about it. He said he wasn't sure if he was happy but he had to do what was right for his child. He said he still cares about me and thinks about me and thinks I'm awesome... I probably got *too* desperate after that and talked to him several times, begging him to come back. Anyway, the last time I spoke to him was a few months ago. I asked if he though we could be together someday and he just said "maybe". I feel like he still cares for me but feels like there are no other options because if he leaves he won't have the same access to his child. I sympathize completely but I still love this man. I love his child. I want to be with them again. Is there hope?[/quote]