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[quote=Lanie Stevens][quote=colleenpaula]Hello Beautiful Friends,    I am new to the board and looking for some advice. My fiancé broke it off with me about a month ago. We still live in the same house, but have not really seen each other or talked since last weekend when he was very much for sure he wanted to break up and not willing to give us a second shot. I was very much blindsided by this as we had a very loving relationship for 3.5 years. I have done a lot of soul searching and realize all the things I need to improve on. I took him for granted because I thought he would always be there for me. Anyway he is planning on moving out on 5/15/17, I read PW last night and have gotten started right away. Just wondering if you all might have any advice for me. We live in the same home, but really don't even see each other. Thank You so much in advance.[/quote] Hi sweetie and welcome to the forum! I know it's going to be hard to be around someone for two weeks when your heart is breaking but use the technique to soften them up. Visualize forgiveness from yourself and them as well as love between the two of you. You may even want to visualize the way it was in the beginning of your relationship. Don't focus so much on what he says to you during PW, focus more on feeling the love and forgiveness. I would not be cold and distant if possible, nor act hurt or angry, just be the kind person you are. That doesn't mean you should be a doormat but I would be respectful, cordial and open. Let us know if you need support during this time. Use the technique daily! XO[/quote]