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[quote=nikki][quote=Blissful]Feeling a little down today.. my guy arrived back from his trip two days ago, he msg'd when he was on the plane and my last response was saying have a safe flight and let me know when you want to catch up. He responded today saying sorry for the late response but jet lag had really knocked him about, he then said we can catch up at some stage if its for the right reasons..? I questioned him on this and he basically said, he doesn't want me to get upset when I see him, he just wants to hang out and have a laugh. I was upset by this because it pretty much means he isn't going to tell me anything I want to hear I suppose. We still agreed to meet up Monday night but I just feel sad about it. its been a year and nothing has changed.. I've never doubted the techniques but now I fear its just not working for me as he is still not wanting to start dating again[/quote] I've been going through something similar lately...everything was going so great and then all of a sudden I feel like I'm back to square one...and it's so hard to pick up from there every time He said that through our interaction lately he still feels that I primarily just want to be with him and am going out of my way for him, which for him is not what he wants[/quote]