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[quote=sueboos]Hi everyone, i have an update. I reached out to him a few weeks ago, probably about a week after my first post to let him know that I still had a lot of his stuff. I didnt expect much of a reply and i even offered to mail it to him, just in case he didnt want to see me. BUT to my surprise, he was SO EXCITED to talk to me. He told me that he didnt reach out because he didnt think I would respond. Long story short, we have been intimate a few times since then. He has told me he still loves me and that he misses me, but he doesnt want a reltionship because he is scared that we are going to break up again. I told him I cant continue to be intimate with him then, and then he said "lets try dating casually, we wont be as serious as we were before, but im not taking that possibility off the table". I don't know how to take this. Is he just saying that because I told him I dont want to be intimate anymore, and is changing the wording so that we can still be intimate? or,... i dont even know. Ladies, what should I do? I dont want to be intimate because I feel like this is turning into a FWB situation and that is not what I want from him. He has been very honest and told me that he hasnt been intimate with anyone else and doesnt want to be... I really dont know what to think or what to do. Any advice will be greatly appreciated!!![/quote]