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[quote=Lj][quote=ThisIsMyUsername]Thank you! But how do you pinpoint these things causing resistance? Whenever I think about my girl, I feel this deep punch to the gut of worry and fear. Maybe it's because I fear she's seeing someone else or I'm scared that because my situation "seems" so impossible, that I can't get her back. Help? :)[/quote] I felt the same way the first 4-5 months after our breakup. But hopefully somewhere down the road you will feel happy when you think about her. That's where I am at the moment. When I think about her or she randomly enters my thoughts, she brings a smile to my face and I always think to my self "Julie, I love you too" or "you are so sweet" etc. How I got here, I don't know. Probably through a lot of Work with my self and finding other Things to be grateful for. Finding happiness in being me. Walks in nature, subliminals and listening to my audio book of The Secret. And I've found that through meditation, I find a lot of inner Peace. Whenever I feel low, I sit Down and meditate undtil I feel nothing but happiness inside. Hope this helps :)  [/quote]