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[quote=Lanie Stevens][quote=MLK]After many ups and downs the past month I finally can say I am dating my love again! Last night he took me out to a movie and dinner. After, he was telling me how he's going to leave (he normally says over my apartment when he visits). I felt something was wrong so as he was getting ready to go I used the technique of living in the end and remained positive. As he was walking out I just told him every single thing on my mind. I told him I cannot keep talking to him and continuing what we are doing. I said that I needed someone to treat me well and that he needs to if he wants to be with me. I guess the thought of him not having me made something click with him! I looked up at him and he was teary eyed. He told me I am such a huge part of him and he is the closest with me over everyone else. If he loses me he wouldn't be very upset and the thought of me with someone else makes him upser as well. We sat and talked about things for an hour or so about how he felt insecure and he wants to change. He wants to be with me. He ended up staying over and just being 10x more attentive To my feelings. Today I asked him what we were doing he told me that we are dating again. 😊 So thankful to everyone on here and Lanie! I knew it was possible and now I have everything I have ever wanted.[/quote] Good job sweetie! I am so happy for you! Now it's time to relax and enjoy it. A little advice… Don't rehash the past or talk constantly about your future. Either one is detrimental to your relationship right now when it's still fragile. Just enjoy it! XO XO[/quote]